Thread:Jester of chaos/@comment-27729149-20150602022947/@comment-27729149-20150701200218

I remember i saw a trope called reformed but rejected trope from TV tropes, isn't that how real life is like technically? Like nobody will trust you ever, even if you are sincere about it? I mean like you could apologize all you want for what you've done, but they will still despise you, that's also where my black and white view came from, but I keep getting so confused, I know that I keep bothering you about this, but I feel like remorse or regret is meaningless, you could be sorry all you want and do everything you can to make up for it, but people will always hate you for what you've done, just speeding, forgetting to pay something, assault, forgetting to pay a ticket, trying to run away, taking drugs, neglecting a child in need of your help, even if it was none of your buisness, none of that is even nearly as bad as murder or rape, but people will still hate you for it, even if it wasn't anything evil or even that bad. But when it's the other way around even a minor crime needs a lot of making up for, one little crime or screwup ruins your good reputation, while it takes a whole bunch of good acts for people to at the very least trust you, I'm so confused about this, it's like everywhere I go for answers, I can't help but feel confused. Everyone makes mistakes, but people will always judge you for your mistakes and will hold it against you.